Have you ever had that feeling when you go away for some time,
then when you come back again, you became a stranger to the people
who you thought you knew so well ?
who you thought you knew so well ?
Maybe you have too committed a group a friends and they will never do that to you, KUDOS I say but I, along with other millions of people have become the unlucky ones here.
For some reason distance does pose a problem. When you're away from a group of friends due to studies, work etc, life will definitely go on, but without you. Thus sparks new private jokes, new hangouts, gossip... Stuff that you don't have the slightest idea about.
They could update you, but it's just not the same, everytime you come back from that distant place, they'll be laughing about something you totally don't know about. You'll be the odd one out with that funny "huh?" look on your face.
Sometimes it's also because you don't have something that they have that creates the exclusion ( like in my case ) . It sort of the "you don't understand" syndrome. Because I don't have something or someone, I don't know what it feels like. So when they share something, I can't share anything because " I don't know how is it like to *blah* and *blah* "
So my dear friends, when someone comes back from somewhere after sometime, please give him or her a warm welcome. It's not the place that they miss, and they don't come back because they miss the food and what not, they love and care enough for their friends to come back and spend time.
How I wish they could see me now, they have no idea how much I miss them. They're having something tonight and I wasn't in the list. Ditched.
For some reason distance does pose a problem. When you're away from a group of friends due to studies, work etc, life will definitely go on, but without you. Thus sparks new private jokes, new hangouts, gossip... Stuff that you don't have the slightest idea about.
They could update you, but it's just not the same, everytime you come back from that distant place, they'll be laughing about something you totally don't know about. You'll be the odd one out with that funny "huh?" look on your face.
Sometimes it's also because you don't have something that they have that creates the exclusion ( like in my case ) . It sort of the "you don't understand" syndrome. Because I don't have something or someone, I don't know what it feels like. So when they share something, I can't share anything because " I don't know how is it like to *blah* and *blah* "
So my dear friends, when someone comes back from somewhere after sometime, please give him or her a warm welcome. It's not the place that they miss, and they don't come back because they miss the food and what not, they love and care enough for their friends to come back and spend time.
How I wish they could see me now, they have no idea how much I miss them. They're having something tonight and I wasn't in the list. Ditched.
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